10 Self-Help Books for Gay Men's Dating.
How to find a boyfriend or date gay guys: 5 more books you can read to help you with gay dating. Here are #6 to #10 of our list of the best gay dating guides for gay men. Just click the links to read the Kindle edition or order the paperback or hardcover from Amazon.
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#6 The Psychological Barriers to Dating Gay Guys
Gay Dating, Your Guide to Finding Love: The Essential Read for Every Gay Man by Jay Sassieni (2010)Psychological barriers to finding a gay partner are explored in this guide which was actually written by the founder of a dating site who is also a coach. You can buy the Kindle or paperback edition here.
#7 Dating Guide for Gay Men Coming Out
My Guy: A Gay Man's Guide to a Lasting Relationship by Martin Kantor (2002)Written buy a psychiatrist, this book encourages gay readers to never give up on love. Chapters include how to pick 'Mr Right' and avoid 'Mr Wrong' as well as how to overcome the obstacles to a gay relationship. There is also an appendix with a short guide to what helps to make a lasting gay relationship. Better for those who are just coming out or starting out with their gay lives. Buy the paperback here.
#8 Stories to Inspire Better Gay Dates
The 7-Day Dating and Relationship Plan for Gay Men: Practical Advice from the Gay Matchmaker by Grant Wheaton and Dennis Courtney (2008)This humourous collection of stories is a quick read, written by another dating site owner together with a professional writer. It's not so much a structured plan as the title suggests, but challenges men to take a good look at themselves if they want to be part of a gay couple. Both Kindle and paperback are available here.
#9 Gay Dating If Monogamy is Not For You
Finding True Love in a Man-Eat-Man World: The Intelligent Guide to Gay Dating, Sex, Romance and Eternal Love by Craig Nelson (1996).Issues from adolescence and psychological blocks to gay relationships are explored in this guide, with the author drawing on his own experiences as a gay man. It was written some time ago but has been included because of its suitability for those who interested in open relationships. The Kindle copy is now available here in addition to the original paperback.
#10 Rules for Gay Dating
The Mandates: 25 Real Rules for Successful Gay Dating by Dave Singleton (2004) The Mandates is an amusing set of 'rules' about how men’s romantic relationships work. Reviewers say it is mostly common sense but offers an entertaining read and many anecdotes from the perspective of a man who has 'been there, done that'. Purchase the Kindle or paperback edition here.
